Let's be honest here. Do it for yourself. Put aside all your socially conditioned politeness, rational reasons and excuses and ask yourself: would you like to fuck hotter (whatever you're into) men, women every week or even having a harem of fuck buddies? Do you feel lonely and just wanna find a quality partner, building a monogamic relationship or some alternative, open, successful relationships? Do you have social anxiety, approach anxiety and even live still in the illusion that looks and money matter? Etc.
ARE YOU JUST WAITING THAT SOMEBODY AMAZING WOULD APPROACH YOU?
The chance that you would be face to face approached by somebody really great for you is close to zero! When you think that you should build even better muscles, investing into more expensive clothing, style and cars or earning even more money, so then the girl will jump on your dick, you are very wrong! Also you girl, when you thing that you need to be thin, beautiful and looking like from magazines or going out with your friends and behaving bitchy towards man, this wouldnt get you quality man neither. Of course there are many different problems why people wouldnt approach you, they are scared, they feel not good enough and it feels ackward to bother some stranger, what if he/she wouldnt like me, what if i would embarrass myself in front of the people, what if i would get rejected etc. So people are not approaching each other personally so much. They just waiting that somebody would approach them. But if even somebody would approach you, whats the chance that this person would be the amazing person able to bring you what you need? So if you are in the "waiting" state of mind, its time to WAKE UP and TAKING ACTION!
Taking action doesnt mean going to hide yourself behind some safe internet device and approaching people online. It would go nowhere! Results from online dating having mostly people who searching older partners, above 30y and people from LGBT community. People above 30 mostly went through some tough times so they are more developed and they already aged, maybe searching somebody for helping them with children, they dont get tons of messages with compliments as young people. So they are more or less desperate to find a partner and would be much more tolerant towards many misunderstandings which online chatting will bring. But online is in the most cases the hardest and most painful way of approaching. You are not developing your life because you are investing your prescious time and life energy into trying to arrange some date online, you investing also your feelings, hopes and dreams, and it will most likely end with no satisfiyng, maybe even in painfull results, such as ignoration of your prescious feeling, online misunderstangings, agresive attacks or your partner would look and behave differently in real than online.
Even dating apps like Tinder wouldnt help you much cause they are extremely overwhellmed which reduces your chances.
If you still consider to do online dating and wanna know how to get guaranteed success, you would need our ONLINE DATING MASTERY. But much faster and much more enjoyable way to increase your life quality and excitement is to learn our APPROACHING MASTERY. Roll down for informations about both.
If you think you would just approach and achieving good results, first check out the next text, it would save you a lot of pain.
CONTROVERSIAL LIFECHANGING TEXT - DATING DIFFERENCES BETWEEN MAN WOMAN
The situation is very complicated and problematic. Please be aware that this is simplified shortcut through the main dating life in westernized population.
Woman not approaching man mostly because of the opressive history of patriarchy, which besides of lot of pain caused to woman also the slut-shaming. When they would approach you, they could unconsciously feel judged as sluts. When a man is picking up a woman and fucking her, the society is celeberating him as a champ. But neither man approaching woman so much, because they fear of being rejected, which can throw down their selfconfidence and fragile manhood. Fragile, because the misinterpretation of Feminism boosted woman during the last decades to shame and fight the man for oppresive aspects of their manhood and behaviour such as assertivity, more visible agressive behaviour, visual objectification of woman as sexual objects, dominant leadership, strong frame over the woman etc.
So now were the man opressed to loose their strong and leading parts of themself and they became "Beta males", nice polite guys pleasing woman, putting them on piedestal, caring about them and doing their best to provide and treat girls and woman how they telling them to behave. But when guys are raised up opressing many masculine parts of themself, being just nice, good and respectful, letting the girls lead and offering them equal choices, paying for the girls and investing into them life energy and time, the girls usually loosing attraction and friendzoning this evolutionary week Beta males. Or if they already had relationship, because he was more Alpha but the relationship maked him more Beta, she would cheat on him with some Alpha. Many of our male clients often saying: "I just did everything to please her", "I did everything she wanted", "she told me that she dont wanna sleep with me because shes valuing our friendship and the same night she fucked with the biggest asshole whom she met in the club and he didnt even remembered her name, and Im dreaming about her, paying for her many things and serving her for 3 years", etc.
When girls making decisions, they following more their momentary feelings, not their rational logical constructions, like man doing. A girl would consciously say that she wanna a nice good and respectful guy (her parrents and the societty are speaking from her) but her organism, vagina and feelings, are since prehistoric times through the evolution more aroused from the bad boy behaviour. According to sources explaining this phenomenon, females of human species were during evolution often impregnated by the Alpha male lovers and when they couldnt get protection and help from them, they went for the rest - the Beta male provider. The same as by primates or many other mammals. Therefore the girl would go to fuck the Alpha bad boy who doesnt give a fuck abouth her and the Beta provider full of pure love and care can just masturbate at home and hope for at least a touch from her. This would repeat, his heart would be broken again and again and together with other hurth Beta males he would develop hatred towards woman. Later he needs more and more stimulation with harder porn and developing stronger fetishes and his hatred and desperation can overgrow into rapidng, or different brutal acts or psychopathology.
Girls having it also difficult cause they are socially conditioned to be polite good girls, not admitting and following their full sexual passions, because they were mostly raised up in a way where they shouldnt be percieved as slusts. But their organisms reacting on not needy Alpha males who dominantly taking them and unapologeticaly freely leading them through rollercoster of emotions, from where they can wring out the life energy, through drama, which is taking them out from boredom. They falling into his frame, into his domination and after sex he begin to loose interest into them. Why he should be interested into her? Young girls dont work on their personal development, they getting massive validation from all those Beta males complimenting them for nothing and the womans media teaching them that they are prize for the man. They are mostly into just having fun, drinking and some hobbies, which cannot bring to those Alpha males any real value. He is having a lot of girls and therefore also abundance to reject the used girl after fucking her few times. Mans evolutionary unconsciouss nature is loosing part of the sexual interest towards already fucked girls, cause the nature in him assumes that they are already potentially impregnated, so mans attention is pulled to spread his semen and reproduce with another girl. All this things happening unconsciously, its noones fault, nature leads our species to reproduce and survive. Of course, our socially conditioned identities learned to live different things, like monogamic relationships, owning each other, respecting each other and cultivating love etc. Therefore girls getting hurt when unconscious males rejecting them after fucking, especially when they developing beautiful feelings for those man. This is causing many heartbreaks for young girls and after socilizing with another hurt girls, they developing the hatred towards man.
Girls having it difficult also because the societty is showing all those naked womans bodies everywhere and appreciating mostly the womans beauty, so it forces the girls showing themselfs and acting sexual, but the same time they cannot efford looking like sluts, because of the deep social conditioning in history of manikind - nobody wanted to have children and life with a slut, it could bring many problems. Todays girls rasing up and are in huge inner conflicts, which can lead also to many sexual fetishes or psychopathology (this are not the only roots of fetish and pathology).
Both genders are traumatized from each other, blaming and hating each other, building movements against each other (Feminism, Men Going Their Own Way, etc) and putting each other down even in jokes. Also therefore people searching for understanding and sharing sexuality with the same genders (this is not the only reason for homosexuality) and people deciding to be single and transiting their love to animals, sometimes caring about them more than about developing a healthy human relations.
The situation is changing when the personalities getting more developed. After age of 30 many wanna settle down, having children, building a life. Woman found out, that to be able to survive in the societty builded mostly in rational laws during the rational patriarchy, they need to act more practically and logically, not led by the emotions anymore. With the aging, they often loosing the social parameters of beauty, they maybe got children with some Alpha and now they are a lonely mothers, so they taking more rationaly the nice Beta guys who survived years of rejections withouth adictions and too much hatred, so they showing characteristics of providers in womans lifes.
Dating in todays society trying many via chat online, but in reality, most of the people getting their dates only through their social circles.
Online daiting mostly doesnt work because each attractive girl is bombarded with tons of messages from needy Beta males on all her social media profiles. She is having also a life, so she cannot open even 20% of them and even if shes opening yours, do you thing she would read it properly? No, she would just flygh on the surface and immidiately opening another one. Cause she knows that they are full of compliments about her beauty, from fake overly nice guys who cannot get laid in real life so they are desperatly needy and complimenting her withouth knowing nothing about her, providing no value to her (man, because nobody is complimenting your look, dont think that you giving a gift to the girl while complimenting the same what complimented thousands before you). Even when you try hard, and this caunts for both genders, the reciever of your message can easily associate something bad with some word which you choosed or misunderstand something and your effort and chances are gone. But, lets say you would establish a nice communication, flirting, even really planning to meet up and developing feelings for each other. To establish this, you needed to invest huge amouth of your prescious time and energy and suddenly you would come to some topic, there would be some misunderstanding and then you would fight and you can very easily loose all your investment. Or your partner would find somebody in real life, or her situation would change whch would change her feelings too, (this happens mostly with girls), and she would change your extremly hardly builded logical plans in the second not even realising that she ruined your world. Girls following their momental emotions, not mans logical constructs and investmens. And for the last, when you finally achieved to meet, what if you wouldnt iike the other in real, what if the other would be stinky, bad breath, very disturbing behaviour in real or any other turn offs.
For girls is online dating not such a investment and they changing the plans with the mood. They have no idea that the male with whom they writing usually doesnt recieve any masseges from new girls, that he is not approached at all nowhere and that this particular communication with that girl is maybe his only chance in the last months. Thts why many males investing extremly much time when finally some attractive girl really answering them and wanna talk to them. But people dont know how to make the chat really effective to get results, so they mostly loosing the potential partner. Mostly the girl is leaving, cause she has tons of another messeges/options, therefore shes not needy and usually not so emotionally and energetically investing into the coversation. After loosing her the Beta male usually hates her and this big los can influence all dimensions in his life. So did also his investment.
But online dating is POSSIBLE to make extremly effective when you attend our ONLINE DATING MASTERY. Online dating can be also your only chance - how to meet exactly your fetish online personalities, whom you following on social media. Online dating, as mentioned in the intro of this service, is also very succesfull for people above 30.
Because of all mentioned, when your friends introducing somebody to you, that is usually your only possibility how to face to face speak with somebody new and make it happen. So think: during one year, how many of those new people whom you met, you percieved attractive? with how many you had a date with kisses, sex, relationship? are those people really the most attractive people of your dreams, with fetishes which turning you on and complatible with your mindset and lifestyle? Did you ever had sexual or relationship experience with somebody like that in your whole life?
This is your life right now! Years flying fast. Do you wanna wait another years, and year after for the same results? Maybe you will meet somebody and later on rationalize that thit person is the best for you. But in reality, this persons are often not what you really wanna. Did you forgot about your passionate amazing dreams? Why you waisting your life like this? Come to learn our APPROACHING MASTERY, ONLINE DATING MASTERY or combination of both and get finally what you deserve.
WHAT WE CAN OFFER TO YOU
All our products are for every gender and we can combine them and adapt exactly for your needs.
APPROACHING MASTERY: Imagine that you wouldn't have any fear to approach the most sexy, attractive people everywhere. You would feel blessed with amazing freedom to talk with everybody, living your full potential, socialize with everybody whom you wanna and making it happen in the way you wanna. For the woman we offering approaches where you wouldnt be judged badly that you approaching man. You would feel amazing, exciting, fun and those approached people will be fucking happy, thankful that you are approaching them. Every approach will bring you more self confidence and life quality boost. You will smile, walking the life with ease, excitement, passion, freshness in your veins and everybody will adore your freedom and attractiveness. You will be the Alpha champ (not the shitty bad boy) and people would be attracted towards you, so life will opening many doors for you.
We can teach you how to achieve this freedom. You will love picking up your sexy “targets” and dating them.
You wll learn deeper understanding of all above mentioned, the INNER GAME and OUTHER GAME teachings and techniques from the best pick up artists in the world, understanding of the real social dynamics, the deep psychotherapeutical level of understanding people and the leadership level of leading people.
ONLINE DATING MASTERY
RELATIONSHIPS MASTERY (NORMAL AND ALTERNATIVE RELATIONSHIPS)
After succesfull dating, we can help you to build your amazing and succesfull relationships, if you wanna some. Jan Duris has been living in relationship alternatives full of love, most of his life and he is working with couples and teaching about relationships worldwide for many years. After attending this program, you would be a relationship master no matter if you are still single, or if you would attend it with or withouth your partner.
From Jan Duriss experiences with thousends of people, we humans need to live all parts of us, all our potential, otherwise the not lived potential would ransform to ilnesses and all kinds of problems. The monogamic structure of relationships which our societty teaches the last few thousands of years is therefore not compatible yet with our real nature. Thats why people having all kinds of relationships or health issues. If you wanna manitain and support your monogamic relationship, solve all those difficult problems, cleaning the heavy painful energy, bringing new freshnes and excitement, so you can grow together with your partner into health, self actualization, deepest understanding or even the magical or mystical connection when two souls and bodies becoming one unity, we have amazing services for you. For those who thinking about freedom to live all their parts, we offering you many atractive alternatives how to do it. Open relationship is just one of them. Relationship alternatives can be much more healthy because in them partners dont feel so much pressure on each other to fit their expectations and needs, giving each other much more freedom to live their full potential, which is preventive against psychological and body ilnesses etc. Our RELATIONSHIP MASTERY will map your most ideal relationship dreams, then work on all your problems and introducing you all the possibilities. Then we will give you all the necessary trainings, couching, facilitations and therapy, to safely create our dream relationships.
In the RELATIONSHIP MASTERY we would create exacly on your needs adapted combination of all of our services, mostly PSYCHOTHERAPY, SELFTHERAPY, FACILITATION, etc. ..... link
WHY WE ARE DIFFFERENT AND WHY YOU SHOULD CHOOSE US
We are offering you the next level of dating and pick up artistry. Jan Duris is combining dating coaching with other amazing services from this website plus with the deepest/highest psychotherapeutical knowledge, so your chances for success are with us much higher than with other dating coaches.
Nowadays you have tons of very expensive dating coaches around the world. For you shouldnt matter how fast they can pick up a woman or man and getting sex. What matters is that in reallity, all your problems in this topics, having a deeper psychological reasons in you, which creating all your difficulties from approach anxiety, through all the inner problems during interacting with your approached "target", till problems with sex and relationship problems. Jan Duris loves this work so much, he is a huge fan and follower of ewerything important in the pick up and dating industry, cold approach and the game are a important part of his lifestyle. He is teaching this service since 2014 and he percieves that everybody in the dating industry is teaching you just to push through the obsticles and overcome them. But with their methods, even the masters constantly admiting that they still facing beginners problems like approach anxietty, being out of state, having bad nights etc. It is because the pick up artist "overpushed" personality is a fake personality in them and when they not doing pick up, the real personality is constellating back. Such a pushing through in long term would have negative impact on their health and its also the main obsticle for their students to grow fast. Therefore not many succed. What is needed is deep psychotherapeutical integration of all personality parts, not only pushing yourself. Jan Duris with his psychotherapeutic and selftherapeutic mastery offers you this amazing integration, including deepest understanding of your issues while approaching people, seducing them and building the lifestyle of your dreams. Of course you will get deep understanding of the game styles of all the biggest master from the field and Jan will help you to integrate all needed components into your action while going out, seducing and getting laid and having tons of fun.
We are also different because we are here also for the WOMAN. Giving them all of mentioned above, with the deepest understanding of what is going on in a man (or woman, whatever she is into)
And we going even further to the RELATIONSHIPS MASTERY, where no one from the pick up and dating industry goes. Introducing you totally new excited world of relationship possibilities or the most effective methods how you can build your dream relationship and lifestyle.
HOW WE ARE WORKING
We are always creating services for special needs. Working with individuals and couples worlwide, face to face or online. First, we will map your needs, biggest fantasies and organizatory processes of your life. Then we will see what skills and personality dimensions you are lacking to achieve your dream results and we will begin with experiencial training and therapy to make the best from you, awakening the champ within. Helping you become that attractive person whom you always wanted to be, whom you own yourself to be. You deserve that.
Most of the trainings will be practical. Not taking your money for hours of theory, instead going out in field and teaching you to approach and pick up your attractive people. As a bonus, all those learnt skills you will use everywhere in your life and you will also teach them to your children and friends, because you will realise that those are the most important winner's social skills to achieve life success.
AMONG MANY OTHERS YOU WILL LEARN
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All the secrets of social dynamics (status influence, leading, being at the cause not in the fear mode reaction etc)
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Building your strong frame, which will give you extreme healthy core self confidence and a lot of fun, and excitement from socializing
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Why looks and money don't matter so much and how you can replace them with your frame and skills
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How to approach attractive people everywhere, enjoying it and how to not be rejected
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All the skills for the whole process: how to open the approach, building comfort, emotional spikes, flirting, connection, physicality, passing shit tests, spiking to sex, deepening towards relationship
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How to do an instant makeout or get an instant date. How to do one night stands
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What to do if your target has partners already, how to make their friends like and approve you
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How to merge the approaches and create a huge social attraction etc
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How to have effective texting, messaging, chatting, how to not waste your time and avoid the extreme common mistakes
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Deep understanding of women and men, dating and social psychology. Without understanding the differences you cannot be succesful
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How to keep your partner hooked, totally into you and how to make steps forward into even higher quality of relationship
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How to bring your fetishes into your relationship and how to help your partner try it and bring her/his own in.
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How to have threesomes/foursomes
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How to use this powerful skills in other social relations, like building business or instant connection with people
IS THIS A MANIPULATION OF PEOPLE?
Yes and no! It is bringing a beautiful win-win situation which enriches the life of you and the people being approached. It is giving people a possibility to finally meet socially calibrated, empathetic, caring, not creepy, not needy but authentic and mature personality.
