Clients' online case study: How past lifes can influence our todays life and business.

This short article is not about the past lifes phenomenon. My personal experiences and thoughts about the past lifes you can find in few of my videoblogs and maybe i will write some articles about it too. This article is a short case study to deliver you a little example of our psychotherapeutic work to show you how JAN DURIS SYSTEM can work with many different life processes and even online. This was a videocall session.

Client is a business woman in her 40s, who has been working on herself a lot, created her own business, also a married mother of few children. Her man is working hard sacrifacing himself to make enough money so the family can have nice comfort. The teenage daughters and the man are forcing my client into the role of the mother and then she doesn't have enough space for her own dreams, business, activities and personal developent, things that she is really keen on and dreaming of doing. She was also been opressed from her parrents, never beeing good enough for them. With this client I have already worked in the past on issues like how she can be effective in helping her man with his company and after on the topics of searching and finding what she really wanna do in her life and how to stand her ground in it. Now shes trying to manage her time and finding her flow in her business. When the man and the children are pressing her into the mother role and organizing her time, shes getting internally destroyed, shes losing her hard achived way and vision for her personal development and business. She's getting also breathing problems, headache and panic.

In the therapy, my job and passion is to follow her process, where her energy wanna flow. When she is talking about how her own family is opressing her, Im following the processes which wanna flow into the family situations. So we play them out, going into those which are catching her attention. Shes finding out that the same oppression caused by her parents is now taking place in her the life circumstances and her family. As a victim of them she feels panic, headache and breathing problems. For me it means that the opressive energy is searching for manifestation and now the energy has gone into her body and is creating body symptoms. The energy wanna manifest something extremely important that my client actually needs in her life, like some skills or attitude etc. It is not a bad energy which should be destroyed, it is just using a form of a body pain or outher opressors to enter the consciousness because the personality wanna be integrated and grow to fulfill its potential. Although the form of its manifestation is painful, the underlying goal is amazing and my job is to make the goal happen.

 

Now the process is showing that we should work on the body symptoms. The strongest symptom is the pressure on her chest limiting her breating but Im always testing where the process wanna flow. So Im leading the client to finding out what is catching her attention more - if the victim role where she needs to fight for the breath or the symptom maker causing opression to the victim. She began to do the opression with her hands and she's smiling which means that the flow of the energy chose where to go. So now she is a symptom maker, the opressor and I'm suggesting her to press on her table. I'm interacting with the opressor asking him questions about what he wanna achieve, why he is pressing her, where he wanna go, and what should be done? I'm also putting the role of the victim on me and trying to interact with him from my victim needs. Then the process switches into clients headache. New symptom consists again of opressor who is pressing on the head and the victim. She wanna be the opressor again giving great feedback on it. While interacting with the opressor we finding out that he wana give her support and that's why he is pressing her. She is realizing that she can give herself support also in another ways and I'm leading her how she can use this opressive energy in her life, business, family and supporting herself and maybe everybody in a right way for her. We are going into concrete situations and she is beginning to understand how she needs this opressive energy for standing her ground and not losing her power and wisdom while her family members needing her. The headache dissapears cause we bringing the energy into her consciousness. But she still cannot find real sucessful solution for such a situations and I'm pointing out that it's not only about solving concrete situations but about managing her whole time, business and life. She is giving powerful feedback on it, she agrees and she's trying to find solutions while holding her supportive energy. But she loses it in the same way how she used to in her daily life. Then she's getting panic. I'm following the process of panic and she's desperate and angry complaining about how she has worked so hard to achieve the flow and when she's already in flow, then she cannot achieve her goals, because she cannot find some document or picture in her pc, or she doesn't have another pc with another programs with her and she doesn't have the things in the order. etc. So when she wanna finally do something from the flow, she cannot, cause she needs to go out from the flow and always searching for the missing something to be able to achieve her goals. For me it means that the process is getting lost somewhere, so she needs to search it over and over. So I'm bringing up the idea of playing out the roles of the flow and then the energy which dissapears. For her this dissapearing energy is like a limitation. She's flowing and then something is holding her back. She is begginning to unconsciously play out this 'holding back' more which for me means that the unconsciouss process of holding back wanna be manifested right now. I'm supporting her with it and she's realizing that it is actually the same like her breathing problems. Following the energy, she's choosing again to press on her chest and I'm interacting with the symptom maker. As the opressor, she is very congruently refusing to reduce the pressure which for me means that the opressor needs support. I'm going on his side and we both building alliance. Im interacting with him, supporting him not to reduce the pressure and to hold her even more strongly, trying to find out what is his intention. It is very dramatic, but in such a way im becoming a friend with the opressor and he feels safe to tell me what and why he is doing this body symptom. He wanna keep her safe, he doesnt wanna that she would get hurt like before.

Me: Yes, lets hold her, we don't wanna that she would get hurt. We don't wanna bother that also we are hurting her like this. She cannot breath now but we just wanna protect her.
Opressor: Maybe i could release her a little bit .. aaah .. i cannot ... but maybe a little bit i could ...
Me: (I saw he hesitates so i was supporting his process) No we need to protect her cause otherwise she would get hurt. Maybe shes not able to protect herself. Or is she?
Opressor: Maybe she is able .. maybe i could put down the pressure a little bit .. just a little bit ..
Me: Yeah, maybe she is able .. she was able to do many things in her life and she survived. So maybe we could try to release the pressure ..
Opressor: But just a little bit .. she cannot be hurt like before, she cannot go too high ... just a little bit...
Me: Yeah just a little bit .. not too high like before .. just a little bit we can try to release her and she would be probably able to survive better than before ..

Then the fascinating integration happened. The chest pressure got released and the client said me that she saw burning light. For me that's where the process went so I was supporting her to look at it while it's still catching her attention. And she did it. She went into the inner visual experience and saw herself as a woman dying in the flames while people burned her as a witch. The integration was happening while releasing her pressure from the symptom makers hands and from her lungs and it was also visually symbolised as witch in the flames. But this wasn't just a visual symbol. It was according to her a memory from her past life. She changed. She was fascinated and told me stories about how she intuitively always searched for topics with witches and places where witches were burned. It was very dramatic. Now she understood how she was always limiting her potential to not being too much for the others, not to go too high, to not getting hurt. We integrated the process organizing her body symptoms, her childhood opressions, her family oppressions, not available things and documents, loosing the energy and another limitations. It was the same process but in a few different forms of her' life's crucial manifestations. She left the session much more healthy, selfconfident, happy and finally free.